I would also add give people the benefit of the doubt. Don't assume that just because someone accidentally misgendered you that they were being malicious. They

I would also add give people the benefit of the doubt. Don't assume that just because someone accidentally misgendered you that they were being malicious. They probably weren't. I mean, if you continually find that you see aggressions and 'isms everywhere then maybe you are just tilting at windmills.