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Perhaps my reading of the situation is way off, but at the risk of making a fool of myself: My understanding is that Monica wanted to use gender neutral pronou
by mkohlmyr 7y ago
Perhaps my reading of the situation is way off, but at the risk of making a fool of myself:
My understanding is that Monica wanted to use gender neutral pronouns throughout her writing as a general case, but that this was deemed "not good enough" (or indeed hateful) in the cases where someone has chosen specific pronouns. So I suppose this is what the GP is referring to. And I can't argue that it seems like a rather extreme position - although I'm happy to be persuaded otherwise.
- abstractbarista 7y agoThat is what this is about? There is something wrong with the way our culture is shifting. There is absolutely nothing wrong with Monica's choice. It is literally the most pacifist choice you could make. Anyone who feels "harmed" by her choice is only harming themselves.
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- mcv 7y agoI care deeply about social justice, and I'm totally on Monica's side here. Even more so because as far as anyone can tell, she wasn't even violating a CoC yet, and would probably have followed it if it was sufficiently clarified. But at the most basic level, I feel gender-neutral language should always be okay. In fact, I think it would be healthy if language in general developed in a more gender-neutral direction. We don't use special pronouns to divide people based on other characteristics, so why gender?
- dingo_bat 7y agoI think it is because of pacifists like Monica that we are at this juncture. Free speech must be absolute. I should be able to say whatever I want and the person who gets offended can turn off their PC, visit another website. But no, reasonable people started considering insane demands like this (forcing others to use certain language), and that's a clear slippery slope.