Yes I was a unclear. I meant "our" to imply the language being used in this very conversation. I should have used "this". My first language is Italian. Even th

Yes I was a unclear. I meant "our" to imply the language being used in this very conversation. I should have used "this". My first language is Italian. Even though almost everything is gendered in that language, gender tends to fade into a purely grammatical role. Unless it relates to humans. > tend to call everything 'he' in English yes I've noticed this too. Like referring to a machine... "he" will encode the frame into mp4 and pass it to the database... Your last comment reminds me of an interesting anecdote I observed. Mom and son, the son having new long hair. Mom asked regarding the hair, "aren't you worried people will mistake you for a girl?" She was genuinely surprised and confused when the son replied that they didn't give a toss if someone does. The landscape is changing fast.