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• gdy 7y ago
  ... in the practical terms and in the particular situation discussed in the thread.
  • gwright 7y ago
    I was referring to the formality of CoCs vs more informal approaches to disagreements. So in this context, "pick your battles" means that not every dispute is worth escalating and mediating in the context of a CoC. More often than not, when you have been wronged it is better to just walk away rather than intensifying the dispute. As for "life isn't fair", It is misleading to think that a CoC is going to eliminate unfairness, sometimes things won't go your way and you should accept that and move on rather than reach towards contractual or legal frameworks for some sort of resolution.