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That's a pretty large canyon you're leaping across to conflate someone's personal preference to how they get addressed and rudeness being "required religiously"

That's a pretty large canyon you're leaping across to conflate someone's personal preference to how they get addressed and rudeness being "required religiously". Oops, I just used "they" without asking the hypothetical "someone" how they'd like to be addressed. I assume youd also say someone believing a man cannot be a woman is someone who should be wiped from the public discourse of the internet as well. Can you be offended by it? Absolutely, but there is nothing inherently "rude" about such a statement. I prefer to be addressed "Sir Knight of the Round Table". Failure to do so will constitute breaking HN and SE CoC. It doesn't take far down the rabbit hole for the shoe to land on the other side.

mirimir 7y ago
Well, Sir Knight of the Round Table, I don't have any problem with that. It's a little on the long side, but whatever makes you happy. Seriously, though, that just simplifies to male. I'm just an old anonymous coward who doesn't get out much. But I did ask a younger friend about this, and got that people who care advertise their declared status in their sig and/or username. As does, for example, "Zoe the transgirl".
- reitanqild 7y ago
  > Seriously, though, that just simplifies to male. Seriously, I'm tired of this. In what company that HNers want to work in does being a male give you any advantage? Or in what school? (I'm aware of certain nurse and chemistry studies prioritizing men, but that's it.) If you cannot come up with any I kindly suggest stop insulting men. You don't need to do that to support others. - Someone who has gone out of his way to help women and immigrants
  - mirimir 7y ago
    Sorry. I have no agenda against men. I am one. Isn't it obvious? But some of my personas are female, I admit. I was just pointing out that "sir" implies male gender. And given that we're talking about gender pronouns, not titles, the rest of it is irrelevant.

mirimir 7y ago

Well, Sir Knight of the Round Table, I don't have any problem with that. It's a little on the long side, but whatever makes you happy. Seriously, though, that just simplifies to male. I'm just an old anonymous coward who doesn't get out much. But I did ask a younger friend about this, and got that people who care advertise their declared status in their sig and/or username. As does, for example, "Zoe the transgirl".

reitanqild 7y ago
> Seriously, though, that just simplifies to male. Seriously, I'm tired of this. In what company that HNers want to work in does being a male give you any advantage? Or in what school? (I'm aware of certain nurse and chemistry studies prioritizing men, but that's it.) If you cannot come up with any I kindly suggest stop insulting men. You don't need to do that to support others. - Someone who has gone out of his way to help women and immigrants
- mirimir 7y ago
  Sorry. I have no agenda against men. I am one. Isn't it obvious? But some of my personas are female, I admit. I was just pointing out that "sir" implies male gender. And given that we're talking about gender pronouns, not titles, the rest of it is irrelevant.