The stakes being so high justifies good decision making, not instant compliance. When you're arguing with those who are actively hostile towards your beliefs,

The stakes being so high justifies good decision making, not instant compliance. When you're arguing with those who are actively hostile towards your beliefs, you're usually only able to convince the undecided middle, who watch your argument and take sides without contributing. I don't think firing a moderator who was to all appearances LGBT-friendly and causing this level of drama has been a net reputation gain for either Stack Exchange or trans people.