I don't know the situation at hand well enough to say whether the policy was fairly enforced, but the policy itself is not unreasonable. If, for example, someo

I don't know the situation at hand well enough to say whether the policy was fairly enforced, but the policy itself is not unreasonable. If, for example, someone had the same stylistic practices as the OP and also wrote hateful things about trans people on Twitter, it may be more likely. Or if they use a certain style when referring to cis people but use a different one when referring to people with they/them pronouns or trans people.