>...those with a better pedigree learn things others do not Yes, I agree completely. But what I learned from my own experience is that I could teach different

>...those with a better pedigree learn things others do not Yes, I agree completely. But what I learned from my own experience is that I could teach different things to my kids than I was taught. No one forced me to teach the same things. And I agree there seems to be a general unfairness in the world. How to fix this seems like the hard part because of your other points. (force people to not help their kids?)