I find it interesting that people can even find this information out. It seems he found out from putting his DNA in but I hear other states allow that informati

I find it interesting that people can even find this information out. It seems he found out from putting his DNA in but I hear other states allow that information to be accessed almost freely. It does make sense from a public health perspective (if everyone started using this service a lot in small communities). If this guy didn't put his agreement in writing then I don't know if there's anything he can really get out of it. Wouldn't it just be he-said/she-said? I didn't see any mention of a written contract. Somewhat related: I was conceived in Germany in 1989. It's really unlikely that I'll ever find out any information about my biological father. Clinics there (until recently) only had to hold some info for 10 years. I don't think my parents even knew anything about the person - as when I came out... I looked nothing like my parents and I don't think they intended that. Brown eyes to their blue. Every facial feature completely different. Olive skin to their paleness. And this extended to the entire family - I always looked out of place. They didn't tell me until I was about 24. I wasn't shocked - clearly. I've never done any DNA testing mostly because no one can place my race and I like the mystery! Sadly - I'm the perfect mix where most white people treat me like I'm brown and most brown people treat me like I'm white. Never got to fit in - lol. I still have a genuine curiosity but not knowing is all the more interesting. Your experience of race is mostly what people think you are anyway.