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> his bar for what he considers inappropriate is so low that it ends up stifling disagreements ... because if I show any annoyance, he'll criticize my tone ...
by rolltiide 7y ago
> his bar for what he considers inappropriate is so low that it ends up stifling disagreements ... because if I show any annoyance, he'll criticize my tone ... It's driving me nuts to have to walk on eggshells all day.
this describes a woman I was seeing
disagree with her, and you're being condescending
agree with her, and you are bringing up something that she considers we had already resolved
bring up a positive aspect or endearing moment, and you are dismissing her
the best part of this is that she would rationalize her conversational superiority with her education in speech pathology!