Oh I'd argue the same, but I have friends who I have known for my entire life that I would consider brothers who can't even be bothered to answer a text message

Oh I'd argue the same, but I have friends who I have known for my entire life that I would consider brothers who can't even be bothered to answer a text message, so you really can't expect the same out of everyone else that you expect out of yourselves. You definitely can't expect them all to see Facebook as an "addictive surveillance program" (even if it is).