> everyone has their own subjective feelings and experiences and biases. You have to put them aside to have a useful discussion. You don't have to "put them as

> everyone has their own subjective feelings and experiences and biases. You have to put them aside to have a useful discussion. You don't have to "put them aside." You have to incorporate them into the reasoning. It's true that some people are petulant and try to end discussion with the "you can't know what it's like" meme, sometimes it's really just what it looks like: a plea to try and understand what it's like to be me, instead of the caricature of me I see being constructed.