> how do I get to be like this employee? You don't. If you have to ask, you aren't anything like that employee. Life as a human being is not a choose-your-ow

> how do I get to be like this employee? You don't. If you have to ask, you aren't anything like that employee. Life as a human being is not a choose-your-own-adventure, and your personality can't be altered in a deterministic way. Learn to embrace the person you are, or fuck right off.