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I completely disagree. I can work closely with someone without being friends with them, or sharing anything personal about myself. That's one reason I like open
by meowface 7y ago
I completely disagree. I can work closely with someone without being friends with them, or sharing anything personal about myself. That's one reason I like open source development. You can treat everyone, including yourself, as formless brains in a vat, and just focus on the tasks at hand.
If it's something like co-founding a startup, that's different. But I don't work a day job to form "intimate relationships". I've found the less intimate and personal, the more productive and smooth things go. But maybe I'm abnormal.
- artsyca 7y agoI'm of the opinion that sharing code is the most intimate act that people can engage in, it's like writing a story and you both have to agree on the plot, the characters, the layout.. now you might say you can spend 8 - 10 hours a day in isolation writing code but I'm telling you that's impossible -- even if I allude to the old adage 'to go quickly go alone, to go far travel with company' eventually you're going to need to know the person you're travelling with because holding back is actually much harder than simply putting down your defences Admittedly, remote work is something different but being colocated for extended periods of time even if you are an island, most people are not and you ought to give a care to your fellow human beings because any one could be going through some shit, as we are all wont to do -- look at TechLead for example.. his wife left him!! did he even mention it to his cubicle mates or did he just maintain a stiff upper lip?
- artsyca 7y agoAs well, even if you yourself disagree, can you imagine that some percentage of human beings might disagree with your disagreement? I view humans in a systems-based perspective, you can't possibly assume everyone thinks the same way you do?