I don't understand what it means to "disagree" with someone else's personal emotional reaction. You wish people faced with some of the worst possible news would

I don't understand what it means to "disagree" with someone else's personal emotional reaction. You wish people faced with some of the worst possible news would Vulcan up? Even from a coolly logical perspective, the slowness of it is not necessarily a bonus. It's not pretty. There's often a lot of pain.