Your right of course and apologies that I'm just getting that aspect - thank you. Yes, I suppose from what I'm saying, I'd be effectively violating the choice

Your right of course and apologies that I'm just getting that aspect - thank you. Yes, I suppose from what I'm saying, I'd be effectively violating the choice of relative. A fair and valid point and does raise many avenues of individuals opting in exposing others thru their choices. I guess shopping loyalty cards - the person who does the family shopping is revealing what the entire household likes in many ways. But equally a tough choice, with many aspects - pro and con to weigh in. With that, I'll concede as without all the options fully outlines, the forced opt-out approach as this is the case, does make much more sense. Thank you for a wonderful debate and I certainly learned something from it.