Engage with your heart rather than your mind. When two people can understand eachother's needs, the appropriate course of action becomes obvious. I think you a

Engage with your heart rather than your mind. When two people can understand eachother's needs, the appropriate course of action becomes obvious. I think you are unlikely to get what you want if you are more concerned about changing someone's beliefs rather than simply convincing them to take some specific action which could help you with your need.