Go to a library. Find a section of books on psychology or self-help or spirituality, better if it is more distant from where you are now. Go through the books a

Go to a library. Find a section of books on psychology or self-help or spirituality, better if it is more distant from where you are now. Go through the books and pick the ones that "look at you" as Russians say. You'll know which ones. Read and see where this takes you.