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Saying no or directly contradicting is often not necessary. Often the reason you might be interested in saying no is a value or dynamic you feel is being under
by erikerikson 7y ago
Saying no or directly contradicting is often not necessary. Often the reason you might be interested in saying no is a value or dynamic you feel is being under addressed or undervalued. You can compliment what's positive in another's statement and ask about that positions relationship with the value or dynamic you identify as needing to be addressed or valued.
- 6gvONxR4sf7o 7y agoOh man, it's made me a god damned jedi master of doing that. I'll jump through all the hoops and contortions to avoid a really direct contradiction. I think I'm actually pretty good at getting to consensus as a byproduct of stubborn "must be right" and avoidant "must be liked."