Well this kind of anecdata if shared really has to come with details. Even if I knew and trusted you well I would need to hear about where the information comes

Well this kind of anecdata if shared really has to come with details. Even if I knew and trusted you well I would need to hear about where the information comes from. There are huge gaps of detail to be filled in. I am not saying that false accusations do not happen. I'm saying these kind of hearsay stories are not even evidence for the people that tell them.