> But of course, I don't want to spoil our friendship, so I never told her that. Maybe she needs to hear it. The key is to get her to ask herself questions, ra

> But of course, I don't want to spoil our friendship, so I never told her that. Maybe she needs to hear it. The key is to get her to ask herself questions, rather than telling. It's best done by suggestions and questions that prompts thoughts. If you tell a hamster there is no point running so hard in the wheel, it will probably run harder.