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Why do you think that? As a man I think we are the victims of our culture where as a man you need to be tough and not reach for help or chat about things.
by simion314 7y ago
Why do you think that? As a man I think we are the victims of our culture where as a man you need to be tough and not reach for help or chat about things.
- raverbashing 7y agoYes, this is the important part. A lot of men lack the tools to be able to go through a hard situation but instead turn into drugs, violence or other negative coping mechanisms.
- simion314 7y agoI think when I feel lonely I watch old TV shows like Star Trek or House and a ton of youtube (mostly educational/scientific channels) I avoid drinking, I only got drunk 2 times in my life , without intending it, and a lot of unhappy feelings surfaced, I seen this in my father too, maybe other get violent but me I get extremely sad (last time was 15 years ago so now I would probably be 10x worse)
- freeflight 7y agoWhile at the same time a counter-culture push exists for men to refuse all of that or risk getting called out as "toxic" and/or "mysogonistic" over some of the most mundane behaviors. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.