Ok, great, I’ve only experienced bad ORM’s then, but if every ORM I’ve ever experienced, across multiple teams and companies, are all bad, then what are the cha

Ok, great, I’ve only experienced bad ORM’s then, but if every ORM I’ve ever experienced, across multiple teams and companies, are all bad, then what are the chances I’ll ever get to work with a good one? And if I always have to use bad ones, what’s the point in using them at all, when I get by just fine without them?