The book isn't meant to be read front to back, the "most relevant" parts of the book for your situation aren't magically going to appear at the beginning. Try

The book isn't meant to be read front to back, the "most relevant" parts of the book for your situation aren't magically going to appear at the beginning. Try reading it again, this time thinking of each chapter as its own, separate story. Don't fall into the trap of "This is popular so I'm going to express criticism". If you want to, you can extract a great deal of wisdom from this book.