> saying that Melinda had to make more sacrifices to get where she is than Bill is laughable Unless you have actual insights into her life and personality that

> saying that Melinda had to make more sacrifices to get where she is than Bill is laughable Unless you have actual insights into her life and personality that back up your statement, denying that she had to make more sacrifices could just as well be anything between ignorant, insensitive or plain mean.