>"Making it" in a big city seems like it requires losing what is important. I also hate city life, but I find it depressing that this is just another instance

>"Making it" in a big city seems like it requires losing what is important. I also hate city life, but I find it depressing that this is just another instance of everything absolutely having to be an us-vs-them scenario. Why can't people just enjoy the qualities of city life or suburban life or rural life without needing to broadly label the other options as somehow awful?