He "doesn't bend" because he's never had to. He's been able to leverage his privilege into a lifestyle of not bending. You know what happens to people who "won

He "doesn't bend" because he's never had to. He's been able to leverage his privilege into a lifestyle of not bending. You know what happens to people who "won't bend" and must? They break and die. So people in dire circumstances learn to bend. Not personally being in dire circumstance is the luck of the draw. Not considering them, or playing "I wouldn't bend" and belittling them, is a refusal to care.