>> it’s because you are in the correct chemistry, brainwise. Well, we all are born different, physically and mentally. Your argument sounds to me a bit like t

>> it’s because you are in the correct chemistry, brainwise. Well, we all are born different, physically and mentally. Your argument sounds to me a bit like that one doesn't have a choice. Basically, I am born lazy, so I cannot change myself, it's my destiny to stick with low goals. >> I assure you this is not how the brain works. Basically he has hope for the future, so he can sell hope to his brain. Can you please elaborate more on that? I do not think we have a right clear picture now how our brain works, motivation, willpower, discipline, whatever. I can agree that if you decided that you are limited by nature, and also if you think you cannot find your goals and sell to your brain - you will stay where you are. In the end, we are what we think we are.