Oh, dear. Just because it works for you that way (and it's fine!) it does not mean it works for everyone that way. Sure, looks matter. But for me (given a simi

Oh, dear. Just because it works for you that way (and it's fine!) it does not mean it works for everyone that way. Sure, looks matter. But for me (given a similar age), I am 2-3 orders of magnitude (!) pickier in personality/goals/etc. You may say that for casual sex personality does not matter, but even then I want someone fun to talk to, safe, and drama-free. And for your record, I don't have a problem with getting matches. (Now in Asia, and as a European I get tons.) Also, it is maybe why I don't approach random strangers at a bar. Unless a science conference, rarely "fun to talk to".