I'm a retired programmer working on a programmatic approach to life using models from psychology and applying category theory to them. I'm also a stay-at-home p

I'm a retired programmer working on a programmatic approach to life using models from psychology and applying category theory to them. I'm also a stay-at-home parent who is working to develop a life for my family rooted in supportive and loving community instead of money. My partner and I also are making several non-normative conscious decisions about how to raise our child. These decisions are oriented toward meeting all needs for life to thrive, especially autonomy and respect. We don't have cohorts and are currently looking for rent-free housing on land where a diverse, interdependent community already exists or the land-owners seek to develop one. I am not looking to argue on the merits of what I seek or the existence of such places. We have enough evidence so far to encourage us on this path, including 4 potential places to live, though none have an existing community and the ability for us to move before winter may not be available at any of them. We seek community and guidance for how to find our next home.