As the other comment says, you concern yourself with the opinion of others too much. While you're at it, you're choosing the modern-average crowd of people who

As the other comment says, you concern yourself with the opinion of others too much. While you're at it, you're choosing the modern-average crowd of people who do nothing interesting with their personal lives. Sports fans, movies, bars? Come on! Easy first step: pick an individual sport and stick with it for a year. Check out your local bouldering gym or get into tennis, for example. Both of those have above-average, healthy, driven, interesting people.