Well expressed - had a similar experience growing up... When you grow up learning to coast along it is hard to transition when you cant coast any more. "Chine

Well expressed - had a similar experience growing up... When you grow up learning to coast along it is hard to transition when you cant coast any more. "Chinese mom" style helps with this. And this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deferred_gratification http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deferred_gratification