It grieves me when someone texts me and says "do you want to do lunch?" and I text them back saying "sure, where and when?"... and then I end up having to pick

It grieves me when someone texts me and says "do you want to do lunch?" and I text them back saying "sure, where and when?"... and then I end up having to pick the time and place, and usually the first three or so suggestions get knocked back. I mean, if it was a woman, I would understand, but when a bloke does that to me I'm always thinking to myself "Dude, take off the lipstick and put on some trousers for goodness sake". Texting should be a more efficient means of communication, but alas, is still imperfect. :D