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From the Wiley press release [1], not the blogspam: > “Most American women hope to marry but current shortages of marriageable men—men with a stable job and a
by bscphil 7y ago
From the Wiley press release [1], not the blogspam:
> “Most American women hope to marry but current shortages of marriageable men—men with a stable job and a good income—make this increasingly difficult, especially in the current gig economy of unstable low-paying service jobs,” said lead author Daniel T. Lichter, PhD, of Cornell University. “Marriage is still based on love, but it also is fundamentally an economic transaction. Many young men today have little to bring to the marriage bargain, especially as young women’s educational levels on average now exceed their male suitors.”
I don't know, that seems like such an incredibly 1950s take to me. Is that really the way most people view marriage? Sure, people who are seeing success in one area of their lives (educational, professional) are more likely to see success in other areas, but I don't think most people (or most women) view marriage as a "fundamentally economic transaction". That reads kind of like incel flame-bait to be honest.
[1] https://newsroom.wiley.com/press-release/journal-marriage-and-family/do-unmarried-women-face-shortages-partners-us-marriage-mar https://newsroom.wiley.com/press-release/journal-marriage-an...
- Pfhreak 7y ago> view marriage as a "fundamentally economic transaction". You dropped the critical word 'also'. Marriage is 'also a fundamentally economic transaction'. At some level, you should understand what your future looks like with this person, how much will you make, will that make both of you happy, how will you handle a divorce, etc. What happens if one of you gets sick and the other has to care for you?
- shameshame 7y agoI'm guessing they never even get close to seeing marriage this way as the relationship probably doesn't reach into courtship past dating. Just a hunch.
- koonsolo 7y agoWomen are attracted to successful men. This is an evolutionary thing and so not much your brain can do about it.