The article highlights that diehard fans do not think the buckets are arbitrary. >As an INTJ, what are the things that I can do to better understand, relate to

The article highlights that diehard fans do not think the buckets are arbitrary. >As an INTJ, what are the things that I can do to better understand, relate to and communicate with my INFP wife? If you thought your label was arbitrary, you wouldn't phrase your question like that. Clearly these people think that these labels provide an accurate shorthand summary of their marital communication issues... which is kinda sad.