Depends on what you want to run on the private server. If you want to run some app like emby and file sharing and things like that, https://cloudron.io https://

Depends on what you want to run on the private server. If you want to run some app like emby and file sharing and things like that, https://cloudron.io https://cloudron.io is a good choice. Basically, you don't have to worry about updates and maintenance. If you want to do it all on your own, maybe you can learn to deploy via docker and friends.