Raising children that while presumably spend their young adult and possibly adult lives in America while restricting their ability to socialize with their peers

Raising children that while presumably spend their young adult and possibly adult lives in America while restricting their ability to socialize with their peers stunts their emotional and social growth. No child should have to grow up despising the majority of his peers because they spend their time "goofing off" instead of being "serious" about their studies. In some societies and communities it might be acceptable, but out of the context of a society that supports and encourages that sort of development at large, it verges on downright dangerous. I've seen numerous people mention suicide rates in discussions about this topic now, and that particular danger rings true with me...