Important detail that Helene mentions in a comment: You should add that that setting in Google Calendar is only available on desktop. I spent a while the other

Important detail that Helene mentions in a comment: You should add that that setting in Google Calendar is only available on desktop. I spent a while the other day after getting one of these trying to find the setting on my phone. It’s not there. The setting affects your phone too, just have to use your desktop to change it.