While I may not have intended my reply as being as insulting as it came across, I don't think I'm very wrong on that count. I just get the feeling that you bel

While I may not have intended my reply as being as insulting as it came across, I don't think I'm very wrong on that count. I just get the feeling that you believe homosexuality to be something that can be consciously influenced by the individual himself or his social circle. And that can be a harmful attitude. And the suggestion that "homosexuals would behave equally badly in a heterophobic society" is at best unhelpful.