Had you skipped your first sentence, which sounds like you are trying to blame millennials and their "entitlement problem", then you wouldn't get this reaction.

Had you skipped your first sentence, which sounds like you are trying to blame millennials and their "entitlement problem", then you wouldn't get this reaction. Saying that you find this hard to understand, and "what causes this" is an open ended question of curiosity, instead of "Is this because parents are too lenient" which is pointing towards what you expect the answer to be.