Sometimes I think it's more that they don't understand trying to understand something. They see someone trying to do something and genuinely want to help. They

Sometimes I think it's more that they don't understand trying to understand something. They see someone trying to do something and genuinely want to help. They don't realise that for the one who is asking the question, their goal is not necessarily simply to do something, but to understand something. It's a little like the difference between an idealist and a pragmatist, except not.