Sometimes I just have a feeling it's about language. I see it a lot in the software community (and Agile). You should say it that way because the other way is t

Sometimes I just have a feeling it's about language. I see it a lot in the software community (and Agile). You should say it that way because the other way is too (passive) aggressive or not PC. SE is a worldwide profession and the internet makes this true. For some people English is a second or even third language. Not always constructing the right sentences, not understanding subtleness all the time. As long as SO is useful for me I will use it. I want to solve problems. I'm not there for the warm community. If SO fails because there is no warm community and this is needed to succeed. I assume another site will get popular where people will contribute to answers that are useful for they community in general.