>unregulated expectation of kindness isn't working What if part of the problem is expecting kindness? Different geographic and work contexts have different kin

>unregulated expectation of kindness isn't working What if part of the problem is expecting kindness? Different geographic and work contexts have different kindness levels. But when everyone knows what the baseline is, it's just that, a baseline. When I hang around my friends that work in the trades, I don't have a subjectively worse experience because they bust my balls.