Come work with us but if you fancy someone then prepare to upend your work just to see if that relationship is worth pursuing. "Fancying" someone doesn't oblig

Come work with us but if you fancy someone then prepare to upend your work just to see if that relationship is worth pursuing. "Fancying" someone doesn't oblige you to pursue a relationship with them any more than fancying some cake obliges you to eat it. Are we adults or are we children?