4 ms·
Punch up, not down.
by shaggyfrog 7y ago
Punch up, not down.
- wesammikhail 7y agoboy do I hate that saying. It literally adds nothing to the conversation!
- dredmorbius 7y agoIt can be a useful heuristic. I don't find it adds much here.
- empath75 7y agoYou really misread that if you thought I was punching down. I was pointing out the absurdity of having to even grade such a thing.
- bendbro 7y agoDo you suspect this is a one off mistake or do you think you make repeated mistakes of this kind? I'm always worried I'm doing some particular thing, interpersonally, repeatedly, but I fail to notice.
- DATACOMMANDER 7y agoThat’s what you’re doing wrong.
- bendbro 7y agoThus aren't you as well?
- DATACOMMANDER 7y agoI meant that your self-consciousness and constant worry is probably harming your social interactions more than anything. Or not. It was for me in the past.
- bendbro 7y agoAw, I was hoping we were going to dig deep into a "no u" situation.
- drdeca 7y agowhat?
- aasasd 7y agoI embraced the awkwardness, and now I know for sure that I'm doing ‘a thing,’ instead of worrying about whether I do or not.