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Why should it be the manager who gets moved and not the subordinate? The manager is almost by definition more important to the company, and it's a consensual re
by repolfx 7y ago
Why should it be the manager who gets moved and not the subordinate? The manager is almost by definition more important to the company, and it's a consensual relationship that both agreed to and both knew the rules.
Blakeley is claiming her career was damaged here, but what does she think should have happened? That Drummond's career was damaged instead? If you accept the principle people shouldn't report directly to their love partners, one of them has to change job and it's entirely reasonable to assume that the one lower on the rungs has less impact from moving (on everyone else). The alternative is to fire both if they have a relationship even if there's nothing wrong with their work or the relationship itself, which would be extreme and cruel.
This looks a lot like a repeat of the Rubin affair. Colleagues in a happy relationship. Relationship goes wrong, woman tries to drag Google corporate into it, presumably to gain some sort of advantage. It's not really any of their business.
- blub 7y agoThe supervisor has more power and in many companies such relationships are frowned upon, because they open the company to lawsuits. If the supervisor is foolish enough to nevertheless enter such a relationship, they should bear the brunt of the consequences. Unless they're covered by HR... then the underling gets burned.
- repolfx 7y agoBut resolving that problem is exactly why the policy is someone has to move. You seem to be arguing that such relationships should never even start at all, that if it starts wrong it can never be fixed, which seems way over the top.