Hired help is huge. We made friends with some parents in the same family situation as us (baby twins + 3 year old). But they're really well off, and we're Cal

Hired help is huge. We made friends with some parents in the same family situation as us (baby twins + 3 year old). But they're really well off, and we're California "middle class". Our daily chores between the wife and I take a total of about 2 hours. And getting the kids ready to go anywhere can take 30-60 minutes of prep. If you have a maid that comes daily and a nanny for each kid, you're saving around 3 hours per day.