This a very good article, and good comments here. Reading it, there is a quote from the person 'T': > "I understand that I’m in such an irretrievable situatio

This a very good article, and good comments here. Reading it, there is a quote from the person 'T': > "I understand that I’m in such an irretrievable situation because of my own fault, and I myself have to solve the problem. However, I’m a weak, dependent person who was financially supported by my parents until after reaching thirty, so I’m too weak to find a way out of this situation myself. . ." These words, I cannot help myself to think -- that these words, these labels -- are not something he(she) came up with... Instead, these words are really the words of T's parents, that got implanted in his head after continuous drilling and pushing and pushing and pushing him to go to that law school. It is sad and painful to read. When parents cannot appreciate the natural beauty, talents and just overall the magic of life in their children.... Nobody can influence a mind person, his/hers inner-thoughs -- as deep, as long-lasting as parents can. Yes, may be that influence stops before 20, but parents influence is so deep seated, that it will continue affect the person for the rest of the life. Anybody who is a parent has to really take this seriously.