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This is horrible, but it's clear to me that this is just more than "a software error". Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to

This is horrible, but it's clear to me that this is just more than "a software error". Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? In that case the problem is way bigger than "a software error". Don't get me wrong, I understand that these deaths could have been prevented if the software errors hadn't happened; but the serious problem that should be addressed, in this case, is not the presence of these errors.

sbmthakur 7y ago
Yes, that's the issue at the core. Indian students are under a lot of pressure due to intense competition and expectations of parents (and other relatives). Attributing these deaths to an "error" trivializes a complex problem.
- k__ 7y ago
  Yes, I have the feeling that people from India are very work/success-oriented. Here in Germany it's the same, but somehow we manage a bit better to don't over burden our children.
  - sumedh 7y ago
    You cannot compare India with Germany, Germany is a welfare state, in India if you cannot get a good job then the next question you have to ask is will there be food on the table tomorrow.
    - k__ 7y ago
      You're right. It's hard to fathom such countries. On the one hand I see very industrious and smart people from countries like India and Nigeria online, on the other hand people are starving in those countries.
  - sersi 7y ago
    Germany isn't the same at all, there are multiple paths for kids to have a decent life. A kid who is not admitted to a Gymnasium and goes to a Realschule can still hope to get an apprenticeship and have a decent life. In india, because of the poverty, for a lot of kids getting good results is their one ticket to a good life. You just can't compare the pressure in a first world country to the pressure of a third world country.
    - k__ 7y ago
      Good point. That would explain why people from Idia always seem a bit more focuses and harsh about work, for the there has always been much on the line. In Germany we are also work focused, but overall a bit more chill, at least in my experience...
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DarkCrusader2 7y ago
> Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? The problem here is definitely bigger than a software error. For students from small towns or poor family, education is their only shot at a better life for them and their family. You grow up in an environment where failure is simply not an option. I was once one of them. The cost of failing is incredibly high. Kids at this age should not be under such pressure.
- anherome21003 7y ago
  Jeez they just need to learn to relax and talk to their counselor
  - blackoil 7y ago
    What counselor? Schools in villages are lucky to have rooms that don't leak in rains. Though things have improved a lot over last couple of decades, dedicated counselor is in super expensive .01% schools.
- inapis 7y ago
  This. It is a massive cultural problem which the Indian society has perpetuated over the past couple of decades. This competition was so intense that kids scoring 94/95% were also not good enough. 98/100 or bust. Colleges in this country had cut-off lists at 99% for the first 4-5 lists. A vast majority of Indians who grew up and were schooled, till atleast as late as early 2010s, have faced this. I've seen kids as early as 5 taking extra classes after school to get ahead of others. I've heard of parents enquiring about "what" to do for their kid who will write a competitive exam 20 years later. Yes, they are panicking/preparing for something which is going to happen 20 years later. Fortunately, winds are changing directions. Young Indians have come around to the prospect that engineering, medicine, law or civil services are not the only career options. Success of companies like Flipkart, Paytm have played a massive role in turning students towards entrepreneurship. People in major cities are open to pursuing unconventional careers on Youtube, Instagram, Blogs etc. But there's still a massive way to go. I'd estimate it will take another generation or two to bring about this cultural change that marks are not everything. If you need to grasp the intensity of the problem, be aware that multiple prime ministers have made multiple remarks over the years, telling the kids that the exams are not the end of their life[1]. Movies have been made to emphasize that skills/passion is way more important and valuable[2]. To see the after effects of such an education system, read The Made-In-India Manager[3]. Some positive effects are that you get really ambitious and competitive people out of such a system. On the negative side, you'd see that many Indian workers do not really have a hobby or life beyond work. [1] https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/board-exam-is-not-the-exam-for-life-modi-tells-students/story-mey38ekYP46ou8mID71qrI.html https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/board-exam-is-not-... [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/3_Idiots https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/3_Idiots [3] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42611062-the-made-in-india-manager https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42611062-the-made-in-ind...
mayanksatnalika 7y ago
Yeah, the headline is kinda clickbait. The state of education here isn't the best and there is a huge scope for improvements, but also with given volumes unfortunately it's the only system which works and very high competition becomes inevitable. Read this for an insight on why the system is how it is. https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-the-Indian-education-system/answer/Rohan-Kamath https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-the-Indian-educatio...
gingabriska 7y ago
>Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? Yes because there are limited opportunities. Instead of spending money in creating more opportunities, government likes to spend money in forcing students to compete against each other for limited opportunities and this creates a dynamic where you neither trust others and are always eager to throw others under the bus including yourself. Surprisingly, the parents of these students cheer these competition inducing practises to prove how their kid is better than other kids. Instead India will benefit from opening centers where anyone can go and learn whatever skill they want to learn. Anyone should be able to learn how to build a bridge then have his skills and knowledge tested when he actually wants to build bridge for other people. But in India first you compete for learning how make bridge, then you compete for job then you compete to stay in job.
- b_tterc_p 7y ago
  I don’t understand how these ideas can mix. If schools are super competitive and the good economic opportunities go to only the top x%, where x is smallish, then most people do not get x. I can’t see it being suicidally bad if this the most common outcome. What do people do if they don’t succeed?
  - gingabriska 7y ago
    >I can’t see it being suicidally bad if this the most common outcome Other opportunities do exist but mostly it means being dependent on your parents (to get more education) and they are not going to be very nice and always going to call you out how you have failed them. Sometimes, you might even have PhD from lowly ranked institution and you don't get job. There are simply so many institutes offering degrees where you pay per semester $5000 (obvious way to find it through loans from family and friends or bank loan) and might end up with a degree getting you either no job or stuck for years in $400 job. If you are well off, you may become part of your Dad's business in which case it's not a big deal or your dad may use his contacts to install you in some company. But if you've no connections, no money and you bid everything on this education, you might be left win nothing at the end. Internal demand is very less in India so even if you try to do something else, like small time manufacturing or owning a shop (it's bloody battle). Often the ones who have actual shops are sort of mafia types who won't bat an eye to burn your shop or murder you outright this comes after you manage to convince anyone about giving you money for bootstrapping (which is also very rare) If you are small time business owner in India, either you've very good connections or you use muscle force to stay in business and demand for whatever you produce or sell might simply not be there. These are my observation as a foreigner in India. Maybe in South India it's different but i am in North India.
blreng 7y ago
Limited resources and a huge population means that everyone has to compete very hard to grab those limited medical, engineering, or civil services' admissions that have long been considered to be a ticket to a better life. That is changing now though. India now is much more bold than it was 20 years ago. More and more young people are taking the unconventional path and creating their own startups. But most of the country still has a long way to go to overcome this problem of high-pressure high-competition culture.
- gingabriska 7y ago
  People play population as a big thing, it's not in India's case. More people means more demand. The biggest problem is that those people do not have money which can't drive economy through demand. And there is definitely something that can be done about it. Population is large sure, but population density is similar to some middle populated European countries. As a thought experiment if population of India halves over night, the situation will still not improve!
  - kranner 7y ago
    I don't understand why you think overpopulation is not a problem. If the population of India halved over night, there would be half as many mouths to feed; there would be much less unemployment people could afford to charge higher wages for unskilled jobs (because there would be less competition to drive prices down.) How would that not be an improvement?
    - gingabriska 7y ago
      Let me ask you, why you think India is overpopulated? >If the population of India halved over night, there would be half as many mouths to feed; there would be much less unemployment people could afford to charge higher wages for unskilled jobs (because there would be less competition to drive prices down.) How would that not be an improvement? There will also be less demand for goods, ask those countries which have negative population replacement rate. Where will the demand come from if population halved that means half as much demand for your wheat, rice, and all other necessities.
nobrains 7y ago
It's a problem of numbers. Population. Competition. From the article: Vodnali Shivani, 16, woke up at the crack of dawn every morning to study. She wanted to be an engineer and she would often say to her father: "Wait for five years and our lives will change."
mayankkaizen 7y ago
Education is of paramount importance in India. The competition is fierce. I don't have data but you can frequently read in newspapers about so many teens committing suicide over failures to clear an exam or because of intense pressure to perform. These days so many kids start preparing for IIT entrance exams at least 2 years in advance. Even though there are may be 10,000+ engineering colleges in India, only around 30 are just good enough. I once read a Quora post in which a mother asked for guidance as to how she should prepere her 6 year old kid for IIT! Getting admission in medical colleges is even worse. There are even fewer colleges and I've heard that people pay very very large sum as donation to get lateral entry in medical colleges. Education in political science/art is considered waste of time and money. Degree in commerce (if from non premier colleges) is for mediocre jobs. The situation is far worse than I can describe here. Far more worse.
n_ary 7y ago
> Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? It actually is & not limited to India but all neighboring countries. Most parents make it very clear from early childhood that if a child doesn't have "best grades", they are worthless. Some children are actually beaten at home for not getting top grade in poor families or given other traumatizing treatments so they learn to avoid failures/shame in the future(the result of which you see in this news). There is actually no concept of children psychology, so traumatizing children is a normal activity. The issue stems from the fact that, number of educated people in that side of the continent is much higher than number of "good jobs"(doctor,engineer,scientist,government employee etc.) available, so everyone competes for that small piece of the pie. Also, lots all government funded educational institutes are off-limits to a student if they are not top of their class to which alternative paths are very expensive(private college/universities) which can't be afforded by general families, so it is do or die situation overall.
DjangoR 7y ago
Was just about to say the same thing. They should be blaming a culture that would create such a stressful environment where kids would commit suicide for failing a test.

sbmthakur 7y ago

Yes, that's the issue at the core. Indian students are under a lot of pressure due to intense competition and expectations of parents (and other relatives). Attributing these deaths to an "error" trivializes a complex problem.

k__ 7y ago
Yes, I have the feeling that people from India are very work/success-oriented. Here in Germany it's the same, but somehow we manage a bit better to don't over burden our children.
- sumedh 7y ago
  You cannot compare India with Germany, Germany is a welfare state, in India if you cannot get a good job then the next question you have to ask is will there be food on the table tomorrow.
  - k__ 7y ago
    You're right. It's hard to fathom such countries. On the one hand I see very industrious and smart people from countries like India and Nigeria online, on the other hand people are starving in those countries.
- sersi 7y ago
  Germany isn't the same at all, there are multiple paths for kids to have a decent life. A kid who is not admitted to a Gymnasium and goes to a Realschule can still hope to get an apprenticeship and have a decent life. In india, because of the poverty, for a lot of kids getting good results is their one ticket to a good life. You just can't compare the pressure in a first world country to the pressure of a third world country.
  - k__ 7y ago
    Good point. That would explain why people from Idia always seem a bit more focuses and harsh about work, for the there has always been much on the line. In Germany we are also work focused, but overall a bit more chill, at least in my experience...
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DarkCrusader2 7y ago

> Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? The problem here is definitely bigger than a software error. For students from small towns or poor family, education is their only shot at a better life for them and their family. You grow up in an environment where failure is simply not an option. I was once one of them. The cost of failing is incredibly high. Kids at this age should not be under such pressure.

anherome21003 7y ago
Jeez they just need to learn to relax and talk to their counselor
- blackoil 7y ago
  What counselor? Schools in villages are lucky to have rooms that don't leak in rains. Though things have improved a lot over last couple of decades, dedicated counselor is in super expensive .01% schools.
inapis 7y ago
This. It is a massive cultural problem which the Indian society has perpetuated over the past couple of decades. This competition was so intense that kids scoring 94/95% were also not good enough. 98/100 or bust. Colleges in this country had cut-off lists at 99% for the first 4-5 lists. A vast majority of Indians who grew up and were schooled, till atleast as late as early 2010s, have faced this. I've seen kids as early as 5 taking extra classes after school to get ahead of others. I've heard of parents enquiring about "what" to do for their kid who will write a competitive exam 20 years later. Yes, they are panicking/preparing for something which is going to happen 20 years later. Fortunately, winds are changing directions. Young Indians have come around to the prospect that engineering, medicine, law or civil services are not the only career options. Success of companies like Flipkart, Paytm have played a massive role in turning students towards entrepreneurship. People in major cities are open to pursuing unconventional careers on Youtube, Instagram, Blogs etc. But there's still a massive way to go. I'd estimate it will take another generation or two to bring about this cultural change that marks are not everything. If you need to grasp the intensity of the problem, be aware that multiple prime ministers have made multiple remarks over the years, telling the kids that the exams are not the end of their life[1]. Movies have been made to emphasize that skills/passion is way more important and valuable[2]. To see the after effects of such an education system, read The Made-In-India Manager[3]. Some positive effects are that you get really ambitious and competitive people out of such a system. On the negative side, you'd see that many Indian workers do not really have a hobby or life beyond work. [1] https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/board-exam-is-not-the-exam-for-life-modi-tells-students/story-mey38ekYP46ou8mID71qrI.html https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/board-exam-is-not-... [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/3_Idiots https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/3_Idiots [3] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42611062-the-made-in-india-manager https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42611062-the-made-in-ind...

mayanksatnalika 7y ago

Yeah, the headline is kinda clickbait. The state of education here isn't the best and there is a huge scope for improvements, but also with given volumes unfortunately it's the only system which works and very high competition becomes inevitable. Read this for an insight on why the system is how it is. https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-the-Indian-education-system/answer/Rohan-Kamath https://www.quora.com/What-is-wrong-with-the-Indian-educatio...

gingabriska 7y ago

>Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? Yes because there are limited opportunities. Instead of spending money in creating more opportunities, government likes to spend money in forcing students to compete against each other for limited opportunities and this creates a dynamic where you neither trust others and are always eager to throw others under the bus including yourself. Surprisingly, the parents of these students cheer these competition inducing practises to prove how their kid is better than other kids. Instead India will benefit from opening centers where anyone can go and learn whatever skill they want to learn. Anyone should be able to learn how to build a bridge then have his skills and knowledge tested when he actually wants to build bridge for other people. But in India first you compete for learning how make bridge, then you compete for job then you compete to stay in job.

b_tterc_p 7y ago
I don’t understand how these ideas can mix. If schools are super competitive and the good economic opportunities go to only the top x%, where x is smallish, then most people do not get x. I can’t see it being suicidally bad if this the most common outcome. What do people do if they don’t succeed?
- gingabriska 7y ago
  >I can’t see it being suicidally bad if this the most common outcome Other opportunities do exist but mostly it means being dependent on your parents (to get more education) and they are not going to be very nice and always going to call you out how you have failed them. Sometimes, you might even have PhD from lowly ranked institution and you don't get job. There are simply so many institutes offering degrees where you pay per semester $5000 (obvious way to find it through loans from family and friends or bank loan) and might end up with a degree getting you either no job or stuck for years in $400 job. If you are well off, you may become part of your Dad's business in which case it's not a big deal or your dad may use his contacts to install you in some company. But if you've no connections, no money and you bid everything on this education, you might be left win nothing at the end. Internal demand is very less in India so even if you try to do something else, like small time manufacturing or owning a shop (it's bloody battle). Often the ones who have actual shops are sort of mafia types who won't bat an eye to burn your shop or murder you outright this comes after you manage to convince anyone about giving you money for bootstrapping (which is also very rare) If you are small time business owner in India, either you've very good connections or you use muscle force to stay in business and demand for whatever you produce or sell might simply not be there. These are my observation as a foreigner in India. Maybe in South India it's different but i am in North India.

blreng 7y ago

Limited resources and a huge population means that everyone has to compete very hard to grab those limited medical, engineering, or civil services' admissions that have long been considered to be a ticket to a better life. That is changing now though. India now is much more bold than it was 20 years ago. More and more young people are taking the unconventional path and creating their own startups. But most of the country still has a long way to go to overcome this problem of high-pressure high-competition culture.

gingabriska 7y ago
People play population as a big thing, it's not in India's case. More people means more demand. The biggest problem is that those people do not have money which can't drive economy through demand. And there is definitely something that can be done about it. Population is large sure, but population density is similar to some middle populated European countries. As a thought experiment if population of India halves over night, the situation will still not improve!
- kranner 7y ago
  I don't understand why you think overpopulation is not a problem. If the population of India halved over night, there would be half as many mouths to feed; there would be much less unemployment people could afford to charge higher wages for unskilled jobs (because there would be less competition to drive prices down.) How would that not be an improvement?
  - gingabriska 7y ago
    Let me ask you, why you think India is overpopulated? >If the population of India halved over night, there would be half as many mouths to feed; there would be much less unemployment people could afford to charge higher wages for unskilled jobs (because there would be less competition to drive prices down.) How would that not be an improvement? There will also be less demand for goods, ask those countries which have negative population replacement rate. Where will the demand come from if population halved that means half as much demand for your wheat, rice, and all other necessities.

nobrains 7y ago

It's a problem of numbers. Population. Competition. From the article: Vodnali Shivani, 16, woke up at the crack of dawn every morning to study. She wanted to be an engineer and she would often say to her father: "Wait for five years and our lives will change."

mayankkaizen 7y ago

Education is of paramount importance in India. The competition is fierce. I don't have data but you can frequently read in newspapers about so many teens committing suicide over failures to clear an exam or because of intense pressure to perform. These days so many kids start preparing for IIT entrance exams at least 2 years in advance. Even though there are may be 10,000+ engineering colleges in India, only around 30 are just good enough. I once read a Quora post in which a mother asked for guidance as to how she should prepere her 6 year old kid for IIT! Getting admission in medical colleges is even worse. There are even fewer colleges and I've heard that people pay very very large sum as donation to get lateral entry in medical colleges. Education in political science/art is considered waste of time and money. Degree in commerce (if from non premier colleges) is for mediocre jobs. The situation is far worse than I can describe here. Far more worse.

n_ary 7y ago

> Is being a student so hard in India that failing an exam causes people to commit suicide? It actually is & not limited to India but all neighboring countries. Most parents make it very clear from early childhood that if a child doesn't have "best grades", they are worthless. Some children are actually beaten at home for not getting top grade in poor families or given other traumatizing treatments so they learn to avoid failures/shame in the future(the result of which you see in this news). There is actually no concept of children psychology, so traumatizing children is a normal activity. The issue stems from the fact that, number of educated people in that side of the continent is much higher than number of "good jobs"(doctor,engineer,scientist,government employee etc.) available, so everyone competes for that small piece of the pie. Also, lots all government funded educational institutes are off-limits to a student if they are not top of their class to which alternative paths are very expensive(private college/universities) which can't be afforded by general families, so it is do or die situation overall.

DjangoR 7y ago

Was just about to say the same thing. They should be blaming a culture that would create such a stressful environment where kids would commit suicide for failing a test.