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Think about how much time you spend on this. When you find yourself halfway through one of these responses, ask yourself: Is this really a conversation I want
by egypturnash 7y ago
Think about how much time you spend on this.
When you find yourself halfway through one of these responses, ask yourself: Is this really a conversation I want to have? Do I really want to dig deep into this and find evidence to challenge this person’s views, and am I willing to consider changing my views if it turns out the evidence is there for it? Is doing this a good use of a half hour or so of my life?
Usually I find the answer to this question is “no” and I close the tab.
- wruza 7y agoThere was a period when I closed around half of tabs with a complete answer already written. Even if time is already spent, it may be not worth it to discuss further, since in explaining to someone you explain to yourself and your most constructive part is already done at this point.